Ask:
my husband spit-fire, how to face and prevent its enragement Madam? [Mrs Edo]
Answer:
Any way, enragement situation is true make the balmy whoever becoming not. And so do which natural Mrs Edo, how atmosphere fear, confuse the, frustation and
that tired always overshadow every decision which will be taken. In fact enragement represent the natural emotion, what felt by human being and expressed in
so many behavior. but, couple of Mamma Edo possible spit-fire type with the expression which so angry.
Cause of things Enragement can be ordinary, but in a condition which stres, individual can make as big angry reason. Even can also cause of respon to problem
pass. So that addressing of non special somebody, but expressed one who coincidence in nearness.
At problem of Mrs Edo, suggested to assuage the dander or lessen the angry habit moment face the problem and Hardness and also hardness threat have never
been agreed in a relation. When aggresive argument always or Mamma Edo always avoid the conflict because in fact fear cannot have a command over hence is
true have to immediately look for the aid. Making calm enragement, non with the enragement also, but the key exactly us which ” got better” have to be more
be patient and calm. Try to recognize the husband feeling, calm moment or in enragement. Ask to his soulful, this can assist the husband does not ” burst”.
Showing eye contact, noding so that he knows that we try to correct reading its enragement. Say something to show couple that we understand and there
possibility wish to make peace.
For example, you can apologize if it is true ought to that way or recognize what causing its enragement. Or earn also show the feeling follow to regret for
the something that of have been happened although th mentioned of outside conducting and can offer the compromise. Enragement moment underway, gain time the
pause where yar us can a moment to give the clarification.
Enough tell the poin and remain to focus its problem. for example by telling: ” I yours soybean cake fulminate, but me remain to have to give ” or ” I have
done which you tell, but fail to, so that I use the way of me, forgiveness if you do not having the pleasure to, that have been happened, we can converse for
the NEXT”.
Is recognizing each other character, what liked and unwelcome will lessen the arising out problem. Both, can converse the angry strategy of moment ” no
reaction”. If there is iritasi with the couple, practicing on skilled communicate effective and overcome before one of us burst Its meaning, both evaluate
the enragement cause, angry expression each and expectation how ought to, require to be conversed seriously moment of all in a state of peace, peaceful.
Last, recognize the ordinary problem emerge as reason of enragement, know what becoming expectation from couple, and try to learn how to interrogate with way
of laying open enragement.
Saturday, February 2, 2008
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